After long, i finally found a way to put everything together on the same track, making me able to organise it through the channel colours, it's kinda handy and complex. but everything can be resolved using an "edit on piano roll" for the track and pointing everything into sepparate MIDI outs inside a Kontakt inside the FL Patcher...
this kinda sucks horribly cause in Cubase/Sonar i can do this with 666 less clicks... but i do not have licence of any of those, so i must stick with FL for the time being