Well. That's certainly a mature and well-thought-out reaction from an admin who's currently furious because someone broke server rules. That's the right message to send, that it's okay for you to flip out and blow shit up because you're an admin. Sure makes me want to stay on the server trying to contribute.
Because being friends with After Dark guys totally means someone's a groupthinking lackey whose only possible goal to join the OCR server is to cause trouble. We can't possibly have jumped over because we want to, you know, have fun playing Minecraft with the OCR community. I use in-game chat. The guys I know use in-game chat.
I use Skype because most of my friends have Skype and I thus have no reason to use Mumble. When building, we usually use Skype because we've got out one little out-of-the-way area that we're building in, and so we don't need EVERYBODY to coordinate our efforts.
Or maybe I'm just trolling you because I moved to the server to cause trouble and not have fun playing Minecraft. That's totally the rational explanation.
Thank you for being a voice of reason.
In summary: tempers are running way too high here. Calm the fuck down. Take a few deep breaths. It's a goddamn game, not life or fucking death.
There's a great old Chinese proverb here: "In the midst of great joy, do not promise anyone anything. In the midst of great anger, do not answer anyone's letter."
There's a lot of fucking letter-answering going on here, so how about everyone relaxes a bit, chills out some, and comes back when they're capable of rational thought.