Another thing that stuck out to me is her saying that the wives and daughters killed were possessions of the male lead. I dunno about most people, but I for one never viewed them as such.
It seems that is what she is trying to do though, either inadvertently or actively trying. Most likely it is the former, but her wording seems to make it seem to be the latter.
This statement completely negates any argument she has then. By going against EVERYTHING she is talking about, she might as well have just said: "Hey, Listen to me talk for 50 minutes then forget everything I just said."