bayonetta's body proportions are clearly a joke
if you think bayonetta is more sexy than terrifying, I'm fairly certain you may have never seen an actual woman before
racism is the belief that differences in race justify discrimination
you do not have to actively hate or be intolerant of say, black people, to claim that black people are less intelligent of white people, which is still racist
the idea that you're trying to present here is that sexism, like racism, must actively involve the concepts of hatred and/or intolerance, and since you (and others) do not actively hate women/are intolerant of them that you are therefore not sexist (which you are)