thats exactly what your people probably said about 90s music. you can always look back at things and see it as being better. i actually have more problems with people hating on modern mainstream music than i do the music itself. sure, dubstep really kicked edm in the nuts, but its not really as bad as people say it is. rock music shouldve theoretically been "old" like 30 years ago, yet you never hear about it. or how the guitar is the most played out instrument of modern times and id venture to say that just as many guitar players suck as amateur "beatmakers" who just make generic dubstep.
of course , in all of this, i dont blame you for feeling the way you do. its not like you can force yourself to like something that you just, dont like.