That's a silly reason I've worked incredibly close to all the developers I've worked with, I'm even offering free game design together with the actual music. For example we set up an IRC channel for the developement team behind Kaleidoscope and I've helped a lot with decisions re: game design based on my own gaming experience (10 years, 400+ games).
Just because we use a website or pre-written letter doesn't make us soulless, unfriendly or not very creative. I'm a huge JRPG fan, played every Final Fantasy and pretty much all JRPGs from the PS1->360 and a few from the SNES era too.
I really thought the point was going after someone who could make music that fits your game and THEN contacting them for a personal conversation.. That's usually how it goes and it's a good way to know that you both get quality music AND someone you can work with. We didn't even get a chance to talk to you about the game because you dismissed us, thinking that we weren't REALLY interested.. I dunno, I don't think that's fair.