For some reason i think the only problem is compression.
You don't have to cut lows to much. I'd say cut below 60Hz is nuf for kick.
But you have to check other instruments freqs(guitar). Probably guitars conflicting with kick drum and bass somewhere around 120Hz(maybe 80-250Hz).
Try to turn off ALL compressors. Then listen how it works. Feel the different.
I prefer to mix my stuff without master compressor. When I satisfied with mix I master it. Then i fix conflicting freqs, giving needed freq priority to needed instrument(rhythm guitars don't need lot of stuff below 90Hz(120) in my case). Other words, I simply giving exact freq to exact instrument. Kick - 80hz and 4-8kHZ
Snare - 100-250hz And 4-8kHz
Guitars - 90-120hz and around 4khz(depends of amp).
ETC. Freqs I don't need, I cut till compression and loudness get in right place.
Specific stuff) Try to find that different with/without compressor. It'll help. I'm sure.
SFME!
edit: I had a great mixed track once, which was destroyed by compressor closer to end of the track. Why? Because of ONE SINGLE hit on Crash cymbal! I turned down hit power just a little bit(very very very little bit) and mix back to normal. Be careful with compressors)