Originally Posted by KyleJCrb
We had respect for Yashafan?
My thought exactly.
Really, though, you don't say something like that. If you had kept it to yourself as to why you couldn't pay him back, that'd be different, but you basically said "Fuck you and your charity" right to his face where everyone can see.
Even if you told him in private, it'd be (however so slightly) different. Not to say it'd be any better; you're still putting your own WANTS over paying back a guy that lent you money. That's a real asshole move.